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importance of self evaluation

  importance of self evaluation  its yet another  Christmas season and many people are now jubilating for having reached this moment. many people have died along the way even when many of them would have wished to be here today, but God's ways are not man's ways.   whereas it would be so normal and important to celebrate the birth of Christ, it would also equally be important to evaluate our selves right from the time this year 2012 started and soon coming to the end. yes, you have achieved and failed somewhere, but the most important and basic questions you should ask your self are: What have i achieved Was it part of my plans Have i achieved according to the way i planned at the beginning of the year or not? Have i failed somewhere? And if i failed, what made me to fail?  Did i have everything that i needed to achieve what i wanted? Can i still push on with the same plans and if yes, when do i hope to achieve them? Who will hel...

HERE TO INSPIRE: marry or keep searching

HERE TO INSPIRE: marry or keep searching : hello colleagues, you can now access my book, "marry or keep searching" on ebook format at amazon.com. its cheap and with information ... "where there's always prejudice and preconceived bias, however much you try to be good, you will always be bad"

marry or keep searching

hello colleagues, you can now access my book, "marry or keep searching" on ebook format at amazon.com. its cheap and with information important for your love life. it does not matter whether you are married, dating, confused or single..it applies everywhere   http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Ddigital-text&field-keywords=marry+or+keep+searching "where there's always prejudice and preconceived bias, however much you try to be good, you will always be bad"

We are products of our thoughts

Flashing back to my olden days and trying to recall the ups and downs of life. I always keep asking myself, why the rich are rich and why the poor are poor or why some of the poor eventually become rich and or why the rich become poor. Despite all the outstanding hurdles that surround us, there could be one major factor that not many people may take seriously. a group of young people attending a public dialogue While attending the face the citizens debate in hotel Africana, one of the musicians by the name of general mega Dee (not real names) who graced the function said that, “the world is a troop of people, the best thinkers occupy the best place” I certainly wondered how many people took him seriously or because he was shabbily dressed, his words came to pass. The way we think determines the actions that we make and the actions that we make exactly portray what we do and what we are in our capacities. What thoughts always govern your mind, how do you think as an indi...

DO WE UNDERSTAND THE EFFECTS OF THE ACTIONS THAT WE ALWAYS TAKE?

DO WE UNDERSTAND THE EFFECTS OF THE ACTIONS THAT WE ALWAYS TAKE? Not very many hours ago, I attended a friend’s wedding ceremony.  before the bride and groom arrived to wedding reception, my friend and i were in a jovial mood. smiling all over like it were the first time i had attended such a function. No sooner had the couple arrived than the crowd sprung  to their  feet t like soldiers ordered by their commander to fire at the enemy to welcome them. Initially, I was in the mood, but within a split of a second, the bright smiles in my face faded like a black t-shirt turning white in colour. something ran into my mind and reminded me about my relationship that was around two months old and already was in balance. I got back to my seat and leaned on it as I reflected back on the cause of the misunderstanding.  Well, how many people always look back to their past and assess how he/she acted towards the spouse and what the effects were? As I asked myself such a ...