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DO NOT DWELL TOO MUCH ON THE PAST, BUT THINK OF TE PRESENT AND BUILD ON THE FUTURE


We have all encountered challenges in the past. Some have lost loved ones; others have been beaten by robbers. Those in love have been broken-heartened; some have been shunned and deserted.
However, it does not matter what situation you have gone trough. So long as you are still alive and able to think, you still have the opportunity to change your life and have a greater future. Dwelling too much on the past is equivalent to forcing yourself into failure. The more you think about the past, the more you will retard your thinking and lose the little hope you were left with I life. Some problems happen because of our recklessness, others happen naturally, while others are misfortunes.
If that nice girlfriend/boyfriend of yours dropped you, love is just a positive feeling that we develop to like the person. Change that negative attitude that you previously had had about certain categories of people and you will definitely find another person to love. Avoid yourself from situations that are likely to be similar to the ones you encountered in the past. Draw yourself away from people who keep reminding you about the tragic moments of the past.
Much as there is a saying that no condition is permanent, I would like you to believe that there are those that are more permanent. Assume you messed up in the past and you contracted the incurable diseases, how temporary is that?
In certain situations, it is important to accept what you have as a challenge, embrace it and seek for ways of how you can make yourself acquainted to the situation.
If not careful, your past is most likely to destroy your future. You are not going back to the past in your life journey, but you are heading to the future which some of the challenges you have gone through should be in position to guide you into.
It is not the end of life, nor is it the beginning of the failure. There is no life and success without problems and challenges and that is why you must learn to let off go the degrading past experiences. Seek for plat forms that can make you feel free and included I n the society. Events that remind you of the past and do not seem to have no solutions to your past problems are a no reach zone for you




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