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dishonesty and love


 well, love comes and people in it get crazy when all is well. when doom dashes in, the questions come in.... could be me who caused the problem, or could it be him or her. when unanswered, stress sets in. isolation, misery and disgust in life set in. many of these come and you fail to know what the probable causes of failure of your relationship is. dishonesty is not just a mere word that one can mention, but with which you can identify your partner, friend, neighbour...name it. it certainly becomes too hard to begin questioning the rationality of individuals being dishonest with their lives in order to win someone's soul.

of-course, some will say if you love some you put those things a side, but how much must dishonesty be tolerated and what could be the most probable out comes if it goes beyond the threshold? women have become the center of controversy especially within their ages. why easily does one move to a cafe and the next thing you do when the computer asks fro the year of birth and you reduce it by three or four years?

many couples have not realized this secret, that with out honesty, you are not going to believe in that person. age among others factors are the ways through which women have got their own doom, by simply mentioning those words that she thinks will make the man fall in for her because she is young, fine!. but what is love?

love does not need to know the age, if some one loves you, it is simple, he/she loves you. you do not have to speak like an angle from hell to be loved nor do you have to make up to the extent that you bleach and become that orange like faced fellow.. where resides dishonesty lies a dynasty of mistrust and unquestionable lies.

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