DO WE UNDERSTAND THE EFFECTS OF THE ACTIONS THAT WE ALWAYS TAKE? Not very many hours ago, I attended a friend’s wedding ceremony. before the bride and groom arrived to wedding reception, my friend and i were in a jovial mood. smiling all over like it were the first time i had attended such a function. No sooner had the couple arrived than the crowd sprung to their feet t like soldiers ordered by their commander to fire at the enemy to welcome them. Initially, I was in the mood, but within a split of a second, the bright smiles in my face faded like a black t-shirt turning white in colour. something ran into my mind and reminded me about my relationship that was around two months old and already was in balance. I got back to my seat and leaned on it as I reflected back on the cause of the misunderstanding. Well, how many people always look back to their past and assess how he/she acted towards the spouse and what the effects were? As I asked myself such a ...