factors that may enhance attraction

Make the best use of your education status and employment:

You do not need to go to school to learn how to care for others. You do not have to be employed to be kind towards others. Neither should your education make you think that you are the boss in everything. Learn to best balance your education status and relationships. You may be too learned. You may be having that degree, you may be having that master’s degree or that PHD, but you may fail to deal with other people. Your education status could be your undoing. Bringing education issues to relationships will scare away people who would have gotten attracted to you. We go to school to get knowledge to help us in our fields and professions and to transform our communities and families, but not to complicate your life by assuming greatness.

You have that nice job and you move around boasting and undermining other people. Who do you think can ever get attracted to you? If you even brag towards your closest workmate, who will you run to if you feel that you are better than anyone around you? Do you think that they will perceive you as being respectful? Everyone needs to be respected. Even you yourself, but if you cannot respect others who will respect you? Think about it and try to ask yourself if your education status and work is doing you bad as far as a love relationship is concerned. Well, someone may say after all “I have my money and they will run after me”. Fine! Does money by love or respect?

"where there's always prejudice and preconceived bias, however much you try to be good, you will always be bad"

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lets be realistic

we have all seen injustice, we have all applied injustice to some extent and all of us must have faced injustice some where some how. but the question is, should we use injustice to deal with injustice, or must we be unjust to portray our feelings? well, how many times have you moved to an office where you are entitled to enter at no cost and you are served after five others you do not know and you just grumbled and finally kept quiet in bitterness? or how many times have you seen some one doing something unjust and you kept quite or you were compromised by an item or two? it is for such simple things that corruption, injustice and other unfair practices have been glorified to the extent the we keep blaming an individual or two for the unfainess. it is because wede have failed to fight the war at our capacities by leaving it for the few. we are all surrounded by these

Leadership, the cornerstone of social cohesion; great leaders uplift others, rather than destroy them

Flashing back to the then days when I was a little young boy, I always heard of people call themselves leaders some of them were praised by society. They owned about two or three fair permanent or semi permanent houses with their children going to fairly established schools and their diet was not the ordinary one. So much often, I would see them rub shoulders with their averagely or absolutely poor and defenceless neighbours who owned almost close to nothing. Many of those poor ones had lost some portion of their land to those so called leaders or they later lost everything. Their lives were in danger as some of them actually died mysteriously. Through my socialisation process from primary school to university and to the work environment, I have not only been perturbed by the word “ leader ” as those I have come across certainly do not seem to be distinct from the “ village leaders” that I have known with their selfish and heinous actions. One of my vivid experiences ...

this is an excerpt from the play, "conspicuous conspiracy". it tells a story of a young poor man who is a friend to another from a wealthy family. the one from a wealthy family plans to get rid of the poor wretch. he reports the case to police, but the wealthy one had a deal with the police. the poor person s detained when he goes to report his case. the poor young mans parents go the wealth one's parents so that they can sell part of their land unknowingly that it is the same family responsible for the son's arrest. the deal is sealed, but the rich man is foolsih and stupid that he makes an agreement which is flawed. he goes to court and he loses the case' who are you on this planet? AT THE BAR (SIT EMONG AND ASANGA) EMONG: He’s hurt. The look in his dry face tells it all, he cannot smile any more, his face is dull with dissonance. ASANGAI: what do you think he meant? EMONG: (puzzled) not certain! ASANGAI (arrogant) you got...

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