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Make the best use of your education status and employment:
You do not need to go to school to learn how to care for others. You do not have to be employed to be kind towards others. Neither should your education make you think that you are the boss in everything. Learn to best balance your education status and relationships. You may be too learned. You may be having that degree, you may be having that master’s degree or that PHD, but you may fail to deal with other people. Your education status could be your undoing. Bringing education issues to relationships will scare away people who would have gotten attracted to you. We go to school to get knowledge to help us in our fields and professions and to transform our communities and families, but not to complicate your life by assuming greatness.
You have that nice job and you move around boasting and undermining other people. Who do you think can ever get attracted to you?  If you even brag towards your closest workmate, who will you run to if you feel that you are better than anyone around you?  Do you think that they will perceive you as being respectful? Everyone needs to be respected. Even you yourself, but if you cannot respect others who will respect you? Think about it and try to ask yourself if your education status and work is doing you bad as far as a love relationship is concerned. Well, someone may say after all “I have my money and they will run after me”. Fine! Does money by love or respect?














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