EKAKORO FREDRICK ETOORI

We have all encountered challenges in the past. Some have lost loved ones; others have been beaten by robbers. Those in love have been broken-heartened; some have been shunned and deserted. However, it does not matter what situation you have gone trough. So long as you are still alive and able to think, you still have the opportunity to change your life and have a greater future. Dwelling too much on the past is equivalent to forcing yourself into failure. The more you think about the past, the more you will retard your thinking and lose the little hope you were left with I life. Some problems happen because of our recklessness, others happen naturally, while others are misfortunes. If that nice girlfriend/boyfriend of yours dropped you, love is just a positive feeling that we develop to like the person. Change that negative attitude that you previously had had about certain categories of people and you will definitely find another person to love. Avoid yourself from situati...

EKAKS THE LAD: dishonesty and love : well, love comes and people in it get crazy when all is well. when doom dashes in, the questions come in.... could be me who caused the ... "where there's always prejudice and preconceived bias, however much you try to be good, you will always be bad"

  well, love comes and people in it get crazy when all is well. when doom dashes in, the questions come in.... could be me who caused the problem, or could it be him or her. when unanswered, stress sets in. isolation, misery and disgust in life set in. many of these come and you fail to know what the probable causes of failure of your relationship is. dishonesty is not just a mere word that one can mention, but with which you can identify your partner, friend, neighbour...name it. it certainly becomes too hard to begin questioning the rationality of individuals being dishonest with their lives in order to win someone's soul. of-course, some will say if you love some you put those things a side, but how much must dishonesty be tolerated and what could be the most probable out comes if it goes beyond the threshold? women have become the center of controversy especially within their ages. why easily does one move to a cafe and the next thing you do when the computer asks fro the y...

EKAKS THE LAD: factors leading to breakage of relationships : as couples think of valentines day. may you also bear in mind the most probable causes of breakage of relationships. the following among o... "where there's always prejudice and preconceived bias, however much you try to be good, you will always be bad"

as couples think of valentines day. may you also bear in mind the most probable causes of breakage of relationships. the following among others is key in determining failure of a relationship Friends:          These are people who are not members of our families who we know like and too know and like us in return. A friend is someone who feels bad when you are going the wrong direction and always stands by you in times of trouble and tough moments . A friend is one who supports you morally, psychologically, socially and it could be also economically. It should not be just taking without receiving from that person you call to be a friend. Many of us mistake acquaintances for friends. Here, an acquaintance is a person you could be knowing and is not your friend, but you can discuss a number of things a part from your personal and family problems and successes. We have all had friends and many of us have had lovers and very intimate fri...

EKAKS THE LAD: BARRIERS TO INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS : SETTING STANDARDS It is very clear and understandable and indeed normal to set standards and conditions as to what kind of p... "where there's always prejudice and preconceived bias, however much you try to be good, you will always be bad"

SETTING STANDARDS   It is very clear and understandable and indeed normal to set standards and conditions as to what kind of person you would like to have, but think the other way and ask your conscience what benefit or negative doing it will have to your quest for soul satisfaction. Many of us have done this in many situations, because it may keep you focused and destined to be the kind of person you always want to be. Some of us have found half of what they wanted, others have never come close to their satisfaction while others have found and left the opportunities to slip off their way, but how many have always found exactly what they wanted? Hey, look, here you are thinking of getting a very educated fellow, who is too wealthy, light skinned, tall or short, from your own tribe, or whichever you wish to! Alternatively, looking for a medium height lady with wide hips, light skinned, educated and working and should not be of a different tribe even when you are convin...